When you really don't like a guy, they're all over you, and as soon as you act like you like them, they're no longer interested.
-Beyonce
In the library today between my two anthropology classes, after the snow decided to stop right after I got inside, I happened across a book in the new book section; How to be a Hepburn in a Hilton World, I started reading and couldn't stop, yet I couldn't help but feel somewhat guilty as if people were somehow judging me by my choice of reading material. Who cares though, I found it to be entertaining.
The quote above is from said book. It had a chapter that was highly reminiscent of the book (and now hit movie!...well not so sure about hit...I liked it well enough I suppose) He's Just Not That Into You. It's funny and a little sad how uncommon common sense has become lately. I will admit, I am prone to these failings of judgment from time to time, often leading to some degree of embarrassment.
One statement the author made concerning dating was that we shouldn't be with a guy who we've had to coerce, convince, or persuade to be our boyfriend. DUH! but still there are countless girls who feel that is the necessary truth. Boys like to chase things and I like to be chased (and chaste) so it kinda just works out perfectly.
great post.... loved the quote. but it's so true, girls often coerce guys to be with them because they'd rather be with someone then be alone...if that is the case it's totally not worth it. too bad i've done that once in the past...but i've definitely learned! i agree with you though, i'd rather be chased and chaste too! haha
ReplyDeletethanks, yeah dating is just a big pain. that's what I conclude.
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